I believe that having a boyfriend does not preclude a woman from retaining her independence. When we let others take away the parts of our lives that we are capable of taking care of for ourselves, they are making us dependent. No matter if it is the b/f or a person who thinks they are helping.
Laura Arual ran into one of the students who will always stay with her.... five years later and she still thinks he is one of the saddest kids she has ever met. It pisses her off that no matter how much you try, sometimes all you can give them is kindness and not opportunity.
I believe that having a boyfriend does not preclude a woman from retaining her independence. When we let others take away the parts of our lives that we are capable of taking care of for ourselves, they are making us dependent. No matter if it is the b/f or a person who thinks they are helping.
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